Ministry on the Spectrum: Why Disability Ministry May Be the Church’s Greatest Untapped Mission Field

More than 46 million Americans live with some form of disability outside institutional care, yet many remain disconnected from congregational life. Combined with the growing prevalence of autism—now affecting approximately one in every 30 children by age eight—the numbers point to one of the largest underserved mission fields in North America.

That reality framed a recent Ministry on the Spectrum panel discussion led by Dean Blevins, director of the Nurturing Care Initiative at Nazarene Theological Seminary. Joined by Brad Lee of the Special Needs Family Institute, Ryan Nelson, Global Disability Ministry Coordinator for Nazarene Discipleship International, and Kayla Smith of the Reach Hurting Kids Institute, the panel challenged ministry leaders to rethink disability ministry—not as a specialized program, but as an essential expression of discipleship and congregational life.

Their message was both practical and hopeful: churches do not have to solve every challenge at once. They simply need to begin.

A Mission Field Hidden in Plain Sight

Blevins opened the discussion by describing disability ministry as existing “on the spectrum”—not simply because of autism, but because disability itself encompasses tremendous diversity. Hearing, vision, mobility, cognitive disabilities, mental health concerns, and autism all require thoughtful, contextual responses rather than one-size-fits-all programs. The statistics illustrate both the challenge and the opportunity.

Nearly one in six children receives special education services, while autism diagnoses continue to increase. Yet many churches remain uncertain where to begin, often assuming disability ministry requires specialized expertise beyond their capacity.

The experience of the Nurturing Care Initiative suggests otherwise. What began as a modest effort has grown into a network of more than 60 churches, including over 35 congregations actively developing autism-focused ministry prototypes. Rather than waiting for perfect solutions, churches are experimenting, learning, and adapting together.

Ministry That Extends Beyond Childhood

Brad Lee urged church leaders to expand their understanding of disability ministry beyond children’s programming. “Disability ministry is cradle to grave,” he explained.

Parents often carry extraordinary responsibilities that leave little opportunity for rest or relationships. Some couples have not enjoyed a date night in years because appropriate care is unavailable. Siblings frequently shoulder emotional burdens while receiving little attention themselves.

Lee encouraged pastors to frame disability ministry differently when speaking with church boards and leadership teams. Rather than presenting another ministry need, churches can recognize the opportunity to reach “the largest underserved population of unchurched people in the United States.” He also questioned traditional ministry structures built primarily around age divisions. For individuals whose cognitive development differs significantly from their chronological age, conventional nursery, children’s, youth, and adult ministries often fail to provide appropriate belonging or discipleship.

“This is a ‘we’ thing,” Lee emphasized. “Not a ‘me’ thing.” Effective disability ministry requires shared leadership across the congregation rather than depending upon a single specialist.

Leadership That Champions Rather Than Controls

Ryan Nelson echoed the importance of shared responsibility while encouraging pastors not to feel pressured to become disability experts overnight. Instead, lead pastors should become champions.A champion advocates publicly, encourages volunteers, preaches regularly about belonging and inclusion, and creates space for ministry leaders to flourish.

Through Nazarene Discipleship International’s free Adapted Discipleship Library, churches already have access to training videos, classroom resources, and adapted Bible curriculum designed to support local ministry.

Nelson emphasized that no universal model exists. “Disability ministry isn’t cookie cutter,” he explained Every congregation should prayerfully discern two questions: What is one thing we can do now? And what is one thing we can dream toward? He also highlighted the importance of safety and clear expectations. Churches should partner closely with families to understand hopes, concerns, behavioral needs, and appropriate boundaries before ministry begins.

Dignity, Agency, and Resilience

Kayla Smith offered a theological framework centered on three guiding principles: dignity, agency, and resilience.

Dignity begins by recognizing the God-given worth of every individual, regardless of age or ability. Rather than viewing disability primarily as a ministry challenge, Smith argued that differences become opportunities for congregations to deepen discipleship and discover new expressions of God’s image.

Agency invites churches to create environments where people can genuinely be themselves. This often requires questioning unspoken assumptions about how people should behave in worship, communicate, or participate in congregational life.

Finally, resilience shifts attention away from helping only individuals with disabilities cope with hardship. Instead, resilient churches become communities capable of adapting together, embracing complexity rather than resisting it.

Start With the Saints Already Among You

As the discussion concluded, Blevins synthesized the panel’s insights into a practical strategy for churches wondering where to begin.

The greatest obstacle, he argued, is attempting to solve every disability challenge simultaneously—a pattern he described as a “Garbage Can Approach” to organizational decision-making. When every possible need is addressed at once, congregations often become overwhelmed and accomplish Instead, churches should begin with the people already present. Identify the “saints in your midst.” Learn their names, hear their stories, recognize their gifts, and understand their daily experiences..

This approach draws heavily from design thinking, which begins not with solutions but with empathy. Ministry leaders are encouraged to ask families about their hopes, fears, frustrations, and aspirations before designing new programs.

Rather than asking what churches should do, Blevins recommended asking, “How might we begin?” That simple shift opens space for creativity.

Think Like a Prototype

Instead of implementing large strategic initiatives immediately, Blevins encouraged churches to develop prototypes—small experiments designed for learning. One congregation, for example, developed an alternative prayer practice for a child who was considered non-speaking. Rather than requiring verbal participation, leaders explored new ways for the child to engage in prayer. Unexpectedly, the child began expressing prayers through intuitive and creative forms of communication that transformed the congregation’s understanding of worship.

The goal was not perfection. It was learning. Every successful ministry innovation, Blevins suggested, begins as “an idea to explore” rather than a finished strategy.

Responding to Complex Needs

During the question-and-answer session, participants asked how churches should minister to nonverbal autistic teenagers who occasionally become physically aggressive. The panel stressed that safety must always remain the first priority. Churches should determine, alongside families, what support they can realistically provide while maintaining appropriate boundaries for everyone involved. Volunteers expected to intervene physically should receive proper training to prevent injury or additional trauma.

Several practical recommendations emerged:

  • Develop clear response plans for meltdowns and behavioral crises.
  • Create designated sensory rooms or quiet “peace spaces.”
  • Brainstorm ideal ministry possibilities before identifying realistic first steps.
  • Remember that behavior communicates unmet needs, even when its meaning is not immediately obvious.

Perhaps most importantly, the panel urged ministry leaders to replace judgment with curiosity. Fear, sensory overload, anxiety, rejection, or loss of control often lie beneath difficult behaviors. Churches may not always interpret those signals correctly, but cultivating compassionate curiosity creates healthier relationships than reacting with assumptions.

The panel also challenged congregations to trust children’s remarkable capacity for empathy. Honest conversations following difficult moments can become formative experiences, helping young people learn compassion, patience, and belonging. As one participant observed, disability ministry is often “messy ministry”—the kind that resists simple formulas but reflects the everyday realities of life together in the body of Christ.

Looking Ahead

Blevins concluded by highlighting several forthcoming initiatives, including new resources on preaching and disability, a practical ministry text, and ongoing efforts toward a proposed 2027 General Assembly resolution encouraging disability ministry throughout the denomination.

The larger vision extends beyond autism or any single diagnosis. It is a vision of churches learning to welcome every person as a gifted member of Christ’s body. For congregations wondering where to begin, the panel offered a reassuring reminder: meaningful change rarely starts with comprehensive plans. It starts with noticing the people God has already placed among us, listening well, and taking the next faithful step together.

To learn more from Nurturing Care videos visit our NTS Praxis Repository. If you are interested in developing prototypes, review information on Nurturing Care’s upcoming retreat in Leavenworth KS or visit www.nurturingcare.org for ongoing information.

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Nurturing Care Churches Are Learning to Turn Welcome into Practice

Across the Nurturing Care Midwest network, churches are discovering that inclusion is not a single program but a steady reshaping of congregational life. From sensory bags and fidget tools to respite dreams, volunteer training, accessible spaces, and new language for worship, congregations are learning how to welcome neurodivergent children and families with intention, dignity, and joy. The June reports and group conversation reveal a common thread: small adaptations, faithfully offered, are becoming means of grace.

Creating Worship Spaces Where Children Can Belong

At New Hope Church of the Nazarene, Merry Sickel described a moving God sighting: a young ASD student independently went to the altar to pray for the first time, without prompting or help from his buddy. New Hope also added supports such as a rocking chair, sensory backpack, wobble seat, fidgets, and a phonics phone, helping one teen remain in worship and move toward a calmer Sunday rhythm.

At The Light KC, JoBeth Crank shared that resources normally used in the classroom are now available on Family Sundays in the main Worship Center. Those supports helped an autistic preschooler remain in worship with his family for the first time, using visuals, fidgets, and the safety of available headphones to manage the overwhelming parts of the service.

At Norman Community Church of the Nazarene, Nathan Jenkins and Wesley Grippen saw sensory bags become a visible sign of welcome during Easter worship, when children and adults eagerly reached for them as they entered the sanctuary. The church also discovered that its sensory-friendly space served families during funerals, allowing children to process grief while remaining connected to the worshiping community.

Simple Tools, Deeper Formation

At Living Hope Church, Tiffany Solum told a humorous but revealing story about a child correcting a substitute volunteer: fidgets could stay out if they were being used as “tools and not toys.” The moment showed that children were not only benefiting from sensory supports but also learning to advocate for what helps them participate.

At New Vision Church of the Nazarene, Rev. Alex Oliver shared that adaptive worship tools have begun helping adults as well as children. Fidgets, drawing pads, coloring pages, and prayer beads have helped worshipers stay present, and one congregant who had not previously volunteered began quietly helping keep those materials stocked and ready.

At Second Presbyterian, Sam Murphy described the church’s use of children’s bulletins, visual worship cues, headphones, and other supports as part of a broader commitment to universal design (UD). One visiting child quickly found headphones when the organ felt too loud, allowing the family to stay and experience worship with freedom and ease.

Training Volunteers and Changing Congregational Culture

At Christ Community Church of the Nazarene, Amy Schlepp said the church has entered a season of “quiet implementation and observation.” Flexible seating, fidgets, movement tools, and buddy support are in place, but the church is learning that broad volunteer training is the crucial next step so teachers, buddies, and all children’s ministry helpers share consistent language and expectations.

At New Hope Church of the Nazarene, Merry Sickel also reported that the church held a workshop with Kris Mitchell for ministry leaders, children’s leaders, volunteers, parents, and grandparents. The training was well received and will continue through team debriefs and further conversation.

At The Light KC, JoBeth Crank named an important learning edge: even after training, some volunteers may still struggle to understand how sensory items function as tools rather than distractions. The church is learning that implementation matters as much as purchasing resources, because adults need coaching in how to guide children toward faithful use of those supports.

Expanding Vision Beyond Sunday Morning

At Hosanna! Lutheran Church, Pastor Mike Kern described a growing discernment process around special needs ministry in the Northland. The church is exploring partnerships with Mosaic’s Rejoicing Spirits network, SOAR, the City of Liberty, and Liberty School District while dreaming about a purpose-built accessible space for indoor play, workshops, support groups, respite care, and broader community ministry.

At Matthew’s Ministry / Church of the Resurrection, Dr. Jessica Davis spoke of “baby steps” toward expanding a culture of welcome across multiple locations. With nine locations and flourishing Matthew’s Ministry work in only some of them, the challenge is helping every site become ready to welcome families when they arrive, rather than sending them elsewhere or asking them to wait.

At New Vision Church of the Nazarene, Rev. Alex Oliver also described how preaching can become part of culture change. After a sermon on Luke 15 and the lost coin, a congregant confessed resistance to adaptive changes and began to see neurodivergent children and families as people the church must not lose through carelessness.

Building Community Among Families and Churches

Claire McClun with Engage Church network reflected on training with Dr. Melody Escobar and research from Baylor’s Center for Developmental Disabilities and Flourishing, especially the need for respite care and family support. She described facilitating connection among families at a congenital heart difference camp and seeing how isolated parents became deeply engaged when given space to share stories and resources.

Claire also highlighted the value of churches learning from one another, naming how a visit to Second Presbyterian shaped her own use of visual icons for listening, speaking, and movement. Her experience with the Food, Fun, and Faith group showed how educators, parents, and neurodivergent families within a congregation can become vital guides for shaping expectations, group rhythms, and sensory practices. She has expanded the range of opportunities in her own ministry with the Play for All gatherings hosted in her community.

At Christ Community Church of the Nazarene, Amy Schlepp and Rayanna Perryman shared how Vacation Bible School became a testing ground for a behavior plan, breaks, sticker charts, and consistent helpers. Their experience with Gideon showed that planning, motivation, and shared support can help a child participate more fully while also teaching partner churches and volunteers to appreciate neurodivergent children as known and beloved members of the community.

A Shared Witness of Grace

The churches in Nurturing Care are not all at the same stage. Some are installing cabinets, filling sensory bags, and creating visual schedules; others are dreaming about accessible buildings, respite ministries, and multi-site culture change. Together, they are learning that welcome is both practical and spiritual: sometimes it looks like a rocking chair, a sticker chart, a pair of headphones, a trained volunteer, or simply someone turning on a light so a family knows there is room for them.

A Reminder that our next Maker’s Space for Kansas City and Midwest congregations will occur this September 11-12. If the stories of these churches intrigue you and you are interested in “how might we” work together to help autistic children experience God through worship and prayer practices. Contact us or register online at www.nts.edu/kc-makers-space

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Nurturing Care Presentations at TNU PALCON

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Creating Space through God’s Place

Patti Rivas shared a story with Nurturing Care about Sandia Valley Nazarene Church and their ability to create space through their God’s place, their prototype in Albuquerque.

Rivas reports: “Our children became missionaries to a group of teens visiting us for the week from Oklahoma actually, a Methodist congregation. The group will be doing mission work here in Albuquerque. Our kids gave a “tour” of God’s Place to include offering prayer, giving examples of how to write letters of gratitude and also shared their hearts with items from their sketchpads and their journals when they spent time with God. The kids also went as far as asking if the teens wanted to do any of those activities because that’s how they spoke to God and they were hoping that the teens could do the same.”

I overheard one of the adult leaders share with a group of how amazing that the kids had this space and the ministry provides something that they can duplicate at their church. However, what proved more important is the kids building their relationship with the Lord.

The young children were active in Discipling and Evangelizing!

Patti concludes: “thank you for your support and vision as we nurture this space for our children and beyond.” Actually Nurturing Care gives thanks to God for the creativity and hospitality at Sandia Valley.

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Nurturing Care Presentation at ONU

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West Coast Maker’s Space 2026: Churches Reimagining Compassion Through Children

Ministry Leaders from across the western United States gathered this spring for the 2026 West Coast Maker’s Space Retreat, a collaborative initiative by Nurturing Care that brings churches together to develop innovative ministry prototypes centered on children, worship, spiritual formation, and congregational renewal. Hosted with Point Loma Nazarene University’s Center for Pastoral Leadership in San Diego, the retreat provided participants an opportunity to share progress, learn from one another, and explore this year’s central theme: compassion.

The Maker’s Space model encourages churches to move beyond traditional programming by creating experimental ministry prototypes that empower children as active participants in worship and prayer. Throughout the year, congregations have developed projects ranging from bilingual worship resources and prayer spaces to prayerful community service initiatives and intergenerational ministry. Their work reflects a growing conviction across the West Coast Nurturing Care network: children are not merely recipients of ministry but vital contributors to the spiritual life of the church.

Churches Report Growing Impact

Several congregations arrived at Maker’s Space with stories demonstrating how their prototypes are already shaping church culture.

At Palmer Family Church of the Nazarene, Monica and Johnathan Gaige reported that children’s participation in worship continues to transform congregational life. One particularly moving story involved a student facing difficult circumstances at home who chose to join the worship team and play trumpet during a congregational worship service. Church leaders observed that as children gain confidence and ownership in worship, their enthusiasm becomes contagious, influencing adults throughout the congregation.

The Tendershoot Trust Walk initiative, serving Native American communities, emphasized trust-building through worship and public participation. Children were encouraged to sing, recite scripture, serve as ushers, and pray publicly during district gatherings. Patti Rivas and KayGene Yazzi described moments when children confidently stepped into unexpected leadership opportunities including ministering to visiting children, demonstrating a growing sense of spiritual confidence while inspiring adults across multiple congregations.

In Southern California, the GratiGrow Project focused on cultivating trust through service. Youth volunteers partnered with families to assist community members with practical needs, including helping a pastor with physical limitations. Lucia Babb noted the outreach drew participation from children who had never previously engaged in church activities and fostered meaningful conversations about serving others. Parents reported that their children returned home proud of their contributions and eager to participate again.

At Bend Church of the Nazarene, innovation took the form of music. The church released its first children’s worship album, Kids Worship, Vol. 1, while simultaneously preparing Spanish-language and bilingual versions. Jason Visser reported that the project has become a powerful symbol of belonging and inclusion, allowing children from English- and Spanish-speaking families to worship together. Bend also invested in emerging young leaders, including a college-aged videographer whose participation in the project affirmed his vocational calling to media and film production. Congregants reported emotional responses from bilingual children who felt seen and valued when worship resources reflected their language and culture.

Compassion Becomes the Common Thread

The retreat’s central theme of compassion emerged as more than a ministry topic—it became a framework for understanding how churches can nurture spiritual growth. During presentations, Dr. Ross Oakes Mueller of Point Loma Nazarene University explored compassion through the lens of virtue science, describing it as a movement from seeing, to desiring, to feeling, and ultimately to action. Participants examined practical strategies for cultivating compassion, including storytelling, gratitude practices, perspective-taking, mentorship, reducing fear-related barriers, and creating opportunities for meaningful service. The emphasis challenged churches to move beyond compassion as a feeling and toward compassion as a practiced virtue embedded in congregational life.

New Proposals Point Toward the Future

Building on lessons learned during the first phase of Maker’s Space experimentation, participating churches unveiled a new collection of proposals aimed at deepening compassion throughout their communities. While the projects varied widely in approach and context, each proposal shared a common conviction: children possess unique gifts that can help congregations embody the compassion of Christ in tangible ways.

Seeds of Compassion

Salinas New Life Church proposed a church-wide effort to elevate compassion as a core Christian practice. Inspired by stories of children demonstrating spontaneous empathy, Tim King and Steve Hermann plan to develop sermon series, service opportunities, mentoring relationships, and family prayer practices planting seeds of compassion along the way. Children will be encouraged to lead compassion-focused initiatives while helping adults rediscover the virtue through their example.

Compassion Trail

Lucia Babb’s Compassion Trail initiative seeks to create a virtual discipleship experience centered on leadership development, spiritual formation, and compassionate action. The program will include youth leadership opportunities, family participation resources, local mission projects, and practical lessons designed to help children understand who they are in Christ and how to demonstrate compassion in daily life.

Love Our Seniors

Reverend Kay Gene and Marilyn Yazzi’s New Life Church proposal focuses on bridging generational divides by connecting children with elderly church members. Through card-making, prayer, visits, and relationship-building activities, children will learn compassion while addressing loneliness among seniors. The initiative seeks to create mutual encouragement and spiritual support between generations.

Pine Hill Mentoring Compassion

Pastor Samuel Alonzo, Joshua Alonzo and Brooke Garcia from Pine Hill Church outlined a mentoring strategy designed to bridge cultural, generational, and relational barriers within their community. By pairing older youth with younger children and emphasizing prayerful and compassionate engagement, the church hopes to strengthen belonging while fostering deeper connections throughout the congregation.

Compassion Connect

Serving a large Navajo reservation context, Compassion Connect proposes regular activities, mentorship opportunities, worship experiences, and community outings that bring children, parents, elders, and neighboring congregations together. Pastor Randy Chatto and Tanisha Teller-Chatto hope these relationships will help children develop a stronger identity in Christ while addressing the realities of historical trauma and isolation.

Leveraging Compassion

Drawing from ministry within recovery communities, Sonoma Valley’s continuing project seeks to reverse traditional service roles by encouraging children to create birthday gifts and encouragement packages for adults celebrating sobriety milestones. Elaine Briefman believes these acts of compassion can strengthen family connections while inspiring greater volunteer engagement among parents.

Loving Your Neighbor

Palmer Church’s updated proposal focuses on extending worship and prayer by helping families practice compassion together through intentional outreach. Activities include nursing home visits, neighborhood engagement projects, prayer partnerships, and seasonal service opportunities designed to help children and adults actively live out Christ’s command to love their neighbors.

Room for Children

Prompted by concerns about children’s invisibility within congregational life, Jasmine Brenneman’s initiative seeks to integrate children more fully into worship, education, and church leadership. Proposed activities include intergenerational Sunday school experiences, worship arts collaborations, and church-wide vision casting around the importance of children’s presence and participation.

Compassion in Action

San Diego First Church proposed a year-round strategy that moves children from learning about compassion to practicing it. Pastors Judith Hernandez and Kassy Fitzpatrick proposed that seasonal activities will combine prayer, mindfulness, service projects, family engagement, visits with shut-ins, and partnerships with congregational care ministries. The goal is to make compassionate action a natural rhythm of church life.

Book of Compassion

Danielle Montano Rivas proposed a creative project in which children author personalized devotional books centered on compassion. Incorporating scripture, prayer, artwork, and personal reflection, the books will be dedicated to significant adults in the children’s lives, creating a unique bridge between generations and highlighting the spiritual wisdom children can offer their families.

Clothe with Compassion

Built around the acronym C.O.M.P.A.S.S.I.O.N., this initiative combines worship, prayer, mentorship, outreach, elder care, and service opportunities into a ten-month discipleship journey. Darlene Paddock hopes the project will help children become active participants in ministry while strengthening community relationships.

A Movement Taking Shape

Viewed together, the proposals reveal a consistent vision emerging across the West Coast Nurturing Care network. Churches are increasingly moving away from child-centered programming that simply entertains and toward ministries that empower children as worship leaders, prayer partners, mentors, artists, servants, and teachers. Whether through bilingual worship albums, intergenerational friendships, compassion projects, mentoring relationships, or creative devotional resources, the common thread remains the same: children are helping congregations rediscover what it means to belong, to serve, and to love. In addition, the group of ministers found new moments to pray for each other and enter in to the same caring community they hope to inspire with children.

As participants departed San Diego, the stories shared at Maker’s Space suggested that the future of Nurturing Care may not rest in larger programs or more sophisticated strategies. Instead, it may emerge from a simple but profound lesson repeated throughout the retreat: when churches create room for children to lead with compassion, entire congregations are transformed.

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A Community of Grace

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